first of all lol ^ it could be that way if you make it.
second, i believe that school is a "time to experiment to see what your into" (quote by metropal)but in the adult life love is more of keeping friendships being able to trust and forgive the other in hard times. also you can make love as bitter seeming as you want but on the other hand, there is no such thing as "fairytale relationship", in other words its like having a beautiful garden without doing the work- it doesnt happen that way. True love isnt easy, but it can be found.